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Filosofi Teras di awal 2021

Stoa of Attalos, Greece by:  Tony Ossenblok Hello 2021. Hello Stoicism. Tulisan ini nampaknya tulisan pertama sejak sekian tahun dan kebetulan saja dimulai di awal tahun 2021. A fresh start, boleh dibilang begitu. Setelah 2020 yang menggemaskan, walaupun belum ada kepastian tentang 2021 itu. Bisa bertepatan dengan rasa galau ketidakpastian, akhirnya saya membaca buku "Filosofi Teras" karya Henry Manampiring , yang memperkenalkan saya dengan Stoisism. Pola hidup yang dimulai oleh seorang pengusaha bernama Zeno, diajarkan oleh Epictetus dan dilaksanakan oleh kaisar Romawi Marcus Aurelius. Prinsip utama dari filsafat ini adalah, dalam hidup hanya ada dua hal yang perlu kamu ingat; 1. Hal-hal yang tidak bisa kamu kendalikan; yang itu kepemilikan seperti harta benda, orang tersayang; pandangan dan penilaian orang lain, cuaca, kesehatan, intinya hal-hal yang berada di luar diri kita. hmm...sebenarnya fisik kita pun, di luar kendali kita. Kita hanya bisa mengusahakan menjaga kesehat
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